Sometimes it takes a
lot to take us out of our youthful, automatic approach to living and wake us up
to what is consciously going on in our lives.
We may or may not be shocked by what we see as the onset of getting older,
but it could motivate us to look for some assistance to cope with its
unrelenting changes. While the art of focusing our attention on an object, such
as the breath, does help in the four stages of aging, perhaps it’s most
beneficial in the first.
After all, the earliest recognition that
we are aging has probably occurred because of some physical or mental
alteration in our lives, which certainly can be gradual but is oftentimes like
a bolt of lightning. It follows, then,
that the initial benefit of a concentration practice, if we have it in hand, is
to help us regain our stability after such a shock. For example, if we’re experiencing high
blood pressure, focusing on something as simple as our breathing, will assist
in restoring it to something closer to normal.
If we’re going through pain, concentration will serve as the foundation
for other practices that will make it more tolerable. Through all of this we begin to realize a
sense of space in which we might enjoy some rest and temporary peace. Moreover, we’ll have gained a greater
awareness over what’s going on with our physicality. Secondly, we’ll be giving
ourselves a window of opportunity to regain and increase our mental
clarity. We will begin to see ourselves
in a different light with less and less confusion and ignorance. We’ll realize the value of the foundation concentration
offers to the next meditative step, mindfulness, which permits us to explore
the different levels of awareness within us.
We might even experience the value of silence in reducing harmful
speech. Our ability to “interbe”, the
level of communication we have between our inner and outer being, may also become
enhanced, thus, creating a balance not previously experienced. And all the while, we might discover we can
be of service to others who are also experiencing the initial stages of aging.
Obviously, using the enhanced version of
what we used to think of as “counting to 10” or “taking three deep breaths,”
before responding to a stressful situation, has become a lifeline right from the
initial shock of what caused us to recognize that we’re aging. Much like me, who woke up in the middle of
the night a few months ago feeling uncommon stress in my chest, we’ve
experienced one or two of the benefits of practicing concentration within the first
few minutes. Moreover, taking a walk in
nature becomes a joy due to our increasing ability to focus and sincerely take
gratitude in its beauty. In conclusion,
most people, who have truly experienced the initial stage of aging and begun a
concentration practice, will continue, without a doubt, to enjoy and expand its
infinite value in daily living. And you?
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